i don't get along with girls...

it's true. all through high school, i had a couple of girl friends including one who was best my friend....
the rest of my friends, and the ones i liked best (aside from a couple girls) were guys....

it makes sense then that i have a few friends that are girls who i truly do love....but in general i don't really look forward to having to get to know new girls really ever....(even though i work in an office full of women at the moment lol)

who do i get along with, then? men.
especially nerdy men.


i get along with all of derek's friends super well. we've started doing a game night with a bunch of his friends weekly...and i love hanging out with them. they're so much fun. there's no fake nonsense involved with guys....no backstabbing, no trash-talking. if they don't like something, they'll talk about it to your face....i love that about guys. why can't we as girls do that more often? why do we have to put on a good face, waste time with small talk about things that don't matter....etc, etc...meanwhile guys are having all the fun building actual friendships and enjoying each other because instead of being passive-aggressive, they talk things out when they have problems with each other and all of that....

not to mention, guys don't LET half of the things that girls get bothered over, bother them...

women are always saying how much more mature they are than men (especially women around my age) and yet, when it comes to friendships...men really do take the cake.

i LOVE hanging out with derek's friends. it's all fun and no complications.
don't get me wrong...my girl friends are awesome and i love them....i just have no desire really to make NEW girl friends because i already have such a cool bunch of guys to hang out with instead.


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